The Ethics of Mediumship: What Makes a Psychic Truly Trustworthy

Michelle G.
Aug 7
3 min read

In a world where spirituality is booming, yet scams and misinformation run rampant, how can you know if a psychic medium is truly ethical?

As both a practicing medium and teacher, I’ve seen the profound impact a trustworthy spiritual guide can have—and the damage caused by those who exploit people’s grief, curiosity, or vulnerability.

So, what separates an authentic, ethical medium from the rest? Let’s dive in.

1. They Don’t Fearmonger or Create Dependency

🚩 Red Flag: "I see a dark energy around you—you need ongoing sessions (and payments) to clear it."✅ Ethical Approach: A true medium empowers you, never insists you’re "cursed," or pressures you into expensive "cleansings."

Spirituality should liberate, not trap you in fear. Ethical psychics deliver messages with compassion, never to manipulate.

2. They Respect Free Will & Boundaries (Including Their Own)

🚩 Red Flag: A reader who claims to know everything about everyone without limits.✅ Ethical Approach: "I don’t read on health/legal matters or third parties without consent—here’s why."

A trustworthy medium:✔️ Knows their own boundaries (what they will/won’t read) and is transparent about them✔️ Leaves you feeling empowered, not confused or drained✔️ Practices autonomy—honors their ethics even when challenged

3. They Understand the Fluidity of the Future

🚩 Red Flag: "You’ll meet your soulmate on June 15th at 2 PM!"✅ Ethical Approach: "I see potential paths—here’s how to align with the future you want."

Ethical readers:🔮 Acknowledge the future is ever-changing🔮 Focus on steps to reach goals, not rigid predictions🔮 Never present one outcome as absolute

4. They Never Force Beliefs Onto Clients

🚩 Red Flag: "Your Christian beliefs are blocking you—you need to adopt my spirituality."✅ Ethical Approach: "Spirit meets you where you are—your beliefs are respected here."

True mediums honor your worldview, whether you’re religious, atheist, or somewhere in between.

5. They Commit to Lifelong Growth

🚩 Red Flag: A reader who brags they "know it all."✅ Ethical Approach: Regular training, mentorship, and self-reflection.

Ethics aren’t static—they evolve. Ethical mediums actively work on their:✨ Professional development (new modalities, peer reviews)✨ Personal healing (shadow work, energetic hygiene)✨ Spiritual accountability (checking their ego, staying grounded)

6. They Keep Confessions Confidential

🚩 Red Flag: A psychic who shares clients’ personal stories publicly (without consent).✅ Ethical Approach: Sessions are private. Details aren’t used for social media clout unless permission is given.

Would you trust a therapist who gossiped about clients? The same applies here.

7. They’re Transparent About Pricing & Policies

🚩 Red Flag: Hidden fees, last-minute upsells, or "urgent" paid add-ons.✅ Ethical Approach: Clear rates upfront, no pressure to pay for "extra" messages.

How to Vet an Ethical Psychic

If you’re unsure about a reader:1️⃣ Ask directly: "What are your ethical boundaries?"2️⃣ Read their mission statement—is it clear or vague?3️⃣ Notice how you feel after sessions—empowered or uneasy?

My Personal Ethics (As an Example)

🚫 No third-party readings without explicit permission
🕊️ No mediumship sessions within 6 months of a passing (grief needs space)
📜 Client autonomy is sacred—your choices are yours alone

For Aspiring Mediums:

Ethics aren’t just rules—they’re the foundation of your practice. In my Ethics Workshop, you’ll:

✍️ Define your personal & professional boundaries🌱 Create a living "ethics charter" that grows with you🗝️ Develop a mission statement that attracts aligned clients